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11 Things That Happen When You Text Your Crush

11 Things That Happen When You Text Your Crush

1. You spend several minutes crafting the ~mindblowing~ message you can ever think of and several minutes past, you have still not have your desired response. Charlie, Yawa ooo

Should I ask him how his day’s going?? No, that’ll sound too desperate. What if I just say ‘hey’?

2. It’s amazing some guys show the message to almost all of their friends before sending it.

Guys, what should I text to bae From Lauren’s Party ??? Do you think this is good??

3. But you’re STILL not sure, so you re-write it more times, and then ask your guy friends to look it over again,  wants to be sure whether you are on the right path.

IDK, maybe I should lose the smiley emoji?! No, no def keep the emoji.

4. You’re finally happy with it, and hit send while you FREAK OUT Goosh.


5. And then you read it over and realize auto-correct totally misspelled something!

SERIOUSLY. How did infinix think I meant to say “peeing” instead of “seeing”???

6. An hour goes by, and he still hasn’t texted you back yet.

Immediately text all your friends asking why he hasn’t texted you back yet*

7. So you start freaking out—maybe you should have written “you” instead of “u”???

UGH I knew I shouldn’t have listened to Blessing—I should have definitely stuck with the wink emoji. What was I thinking???

8. You check your phone every 5 minutes to see if he’s finally texted.

Did you just hear my phone buzz? Wait, did my screen light up?! What if he texted me and I didn’t get it because the service here is the worst!!!

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9. At this point, you realize he basically hates you and never wants to speak to you again.

OK, that’s it. It’s time to accept my losses and move on.

10. But just as you’re freaking out to your BFFs, your phone finally buzzes!!!

OMG. OMG. I GOT A REAL LIVE ACTUAL TEXT. *Please let it be from him. Please let it be from him.*

11. You open up the text, and it’s from *him*!!!!

Lol, I KNEW he was going to text me—obvi he was just busy in a class all day. SO excited to hang out at the game this weekend!

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9 Ways to Show Someone You Love Them Without Saying It

Love is in the air, especially around the young ones. The campus environment is one of the biggest factors in falling in love. The mistletoe is being hung and there are a plethora of various marathons happening every second of the day

However, whether it’s the first time or the millionth time you’ve fall in Love, it’s always more special to show it. There are tons of ways to share your affection for someone without words, and let’s be honest, actions do speak a lot louder. Here are some creative ways to spread the love this season.

1. Give them a thoughtful gift

When it comes to picking out a gift for your Lover, you don’t have to break the bank. Whether it’s his or her birthday, Christmas, Valentine’s Day or even just a random day, giving them a thoughtful gift is a great way to let them know how you feel. Adebayo Olatunji, a recent graduate of University of Abuja, says he “loves to give gifts or small notes or gratitude to show she cares for someone.” Some other great ideas are handwritten letters, handmade art or a compilation of keepsakes that are dear to the both of you. It’s always the thought that counts, not the dollar signs.

2. Listen to them

One of the best ways to show someone you care is the listen to them. If they start talking about something that’s important to them, make sure to listen and engage with them about the topic. Let them know that you support everything that they love and enjoy–and encourage them to tell you some of their favorite stories. This also includes being there for him or her when needed.

3. Be spontaneous

Planning spontaneous dates and surprising your Lover will keep him or her surprised and show that you care about making him or her smile. If you’ve spent the last three days lounging around, try to mix it up and plan a picnic date at the park or a night out dancing. Even if your lover is a homebody, planning a fun night out every now and then is sure to be appreciated.

4. Make time, always

No matter how busy you may be, making time for your lover is sure to communicate how you feel. Being in a relationship is a commitment, and he or she deserves to be a part of your daily life. Make sure to allot enough time for your lover, so he or she never has to wonder how you feel or their importance in your life. If you’re really busy one day or one week, make sure to send a sweet message as a reminder that you’re thinking of him or her.

5. Cook a nice meal

That fastest way to many peoples’ hearts is through their stomachs. Surprising your lover with a thoughtful home-cooked meal screams “I love you.” Take the time to make his or her favourite meal from scratch, or you could try a cooking delivery system, if you aren’t the best in the kitchen. Your lover will surely be thrilled to see that you spent the time making a meal no matter how it turns out.

6. Be forgiving

Relationships can be very hard – both you and your lover will disagree, fight and even make mistakes. If you truly love someone, you’ll learn to forgive and move on. Don’t hold grudges and make your lover feel terrible about something he or she has already apologized for. Try to be understanding and see the other side of every story, that’s what love it about.

7. Give small signs of affection

Or as some call it: The X’s and O’s. Shower your love with hugs and kisses as often as you can. Make sure they know you don’t want to keep your hands off him or her because you are so in love. Giving frequent small signs of affection will reassure your lover that you are crazy about them – but keep it to a minimum in public.

8. Make a secret handshake

Your lover is so much more than just your lover – they should be your best friend as well. What’s better than a secret handshake between two besties? Tell your lover you want to make a secret handshake. It’s sure to make him or her blush and feel special. This is a great way to show love in the littlest of ways. Little things can go a long way.

9. Be vulnerable

One way to show your love for someone is to open yourself up to love as well. Take notice of everything your lover is doing as well, and be vulnerable. Peel back your layers and show who you really are. Giving all of yourself and receiving all of him or her in return is the best way to show love.

Hopefully, with these tips, you’ll be able to speak your SO’s love language and win him or her over forever. Love doesn’t have to be marked by three words–it can be shown in a plethora of ways.

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7 relationship habits women need to drop with 2017

There are certain habits you exhibit in your relationship that just need to be dropped with the year about to end.

Like every year before it, the year 2017 has been filled with enough of everything that makes a society tick.

Some of these things we absolutely love – beautiful weddings, romantic proposals, unforgettable concerts, smashing shows, social media moments – and some of these things we’d rather not see anymore – some disastrous occurrences, certain politicians and personalities as well as some behaviours.

Below we list seven of the relationship patterns that you should leave behind in 2017.

1. Playing hard to get

2017 should be the last year where feelings for a guy will be hidden or downplayed simply because you want to confirm of society’s idea of dating and relationships.

Please say yes if you want to go on a date with him, please kiss and go ahead to have sex on the first date if that’s really what you want to do.

If you are not doing it, let it be because you do not want to. Let it be because it is against your beliefs and values. Not because of what your friends will say or what society will think of you.

2. “Men are scum”

Let this year be the last we hear of the men are scum pop culture slang.

2017 has shown so vividly, more than ever before, that being scum is genderless. Being a bad partner is not a function of your gender – men cheat, women cheat.

Everyone needs to be the best they can be to the love of their life and stop apportioning blame.

We all need to fix up our lives.

3. Refusing to shoot your shot

If you are yet to get the memo, this is it. More women are becoming bolder at going after men they’re crushing on.

Beautiful relationships these days don’t begin only when the guy initiates things.

Guys do not have to ask you all the time. Good things happen to women who shoot their shots.

The idea that a guy has to be the one to ask you out should be left in 2017.

4. Communicating with the Internet

Choosing to post your relationship problems on social media before discussing and conversing with your partner needs to stop this year, too.

It’s OK to tweet about it if you’re comfortable with it, it’s Ok to also send your relationship problems to relationship blogs, too, but that should be the last resort. Not what you automatically do first when you have issues in your relationship.

5. Cheating

It’s silly to think women do not cheat. And even sillier to assume that we don’t know that women are arguably worse cheats that men.

Please let that stop in 2017. Be a faithful girlfriend, a faithful wife in 2018, abeg.

6. Staying in an obviously bad relationship

Whatever your reasons are, you are only doing yourself a disservice and suffering in vain if your relationship is obviously irreversibly bad and you refuse to get out of it.

It’s even worse when you are unmarried but you choose to remain because of what people will say, because you have been together for long or because you want to keep your body count low.

Please stop it in 2017. Be bold and step out of that relationship once it no longer does anything for your spirit soul or body.

7. Opposite-sex besties

This one is quite controversial but as we have already previously opined in this article, any bestie that’ll jeopardise your relationship, the ones whose presence strains the bond between you and your partner…  you have to find a way around it.

Bottom line is this; every behavioural pattern that hurts your relationship needs to be left in 2017.

Do better in the new year.

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Not every relationship you experience leads to happily ever after. You can’t mold someone into your idea of prince, or princess, charming — sometimes two people just don’t work out. Whether you can sense the shakiness in the beginning of the relationship or years down the line, sometimes it’s best to trust your gut feeling. Here are six telltale signs that the relationship you’re in won’t last long term.


  1. You mistake comfort for love

While it’s important to feel comfortable in your relationship, comfort is one of the key reasons why people stay in relationships that have long passed their expiration date. It can be nerve-wracking to put yourself in the dating pool again, and it’s even easier to hold on to a relationship because of the history you and your LOVER have. If you find yourself recounting the reasons of why you guys are together and the main reason is because “you’ve been with him for a long time,” you should realize that complacency does not lead to happiness.

“I was in a three-year relationship and when a friend said to me, ‘Would you want your daughter dating the guy you’re with?’ And my first thought was, ‘I would want more for her,’ I knew I had to start having a conversation with my LOVER,” a student share are view

Evaluate if just feeling okay within your relationship is where you want to be. Love should be the most gratifying feeling in the world and should never be confused with complacency.

   2. You feel like a secret

On the contrary, there’s the classic “situationship,” which we’ve all been in or witnessed. Just like you can’t mold a person into your version of perfection, there is no way to force someone into a relationship they don’t want to be in.

A student of Tasued, knows that your relationship will remain at a standstill without a few key elements.

“For no reasons will he keep to you away from his friend and families if not he is not proud of you. He can only be jealous of people comment on your beauty but he need to show the world that he got you and you got him. If not something is hiding and it might not last

At this point in life, if someone wants you to be a part of their life, it will be clear to you. You shouldn’t be left guessing whether or not you might have a chance of working out.

3. You give and give, and they take and take

Sacrifices and compromises are a part of any relationship. However, they should not be coming from only one end. It’s not a good sign if you give so much of yourself to someone with little investment in return.

You can easily burn out early on in a relationship if you are constantly giving. If your lover expects you to plan your entire life around them, such as school, work and friends, it’s not going to last too long.

If you find that you are the only one sacrificing up your time, money and energy, recognize that that is not normal.

4. Your friends and family can tell it won’t last

Nobody is in your relationship but you and your Lover, so sometimes it can hard for outsiders to judge your relationship. However, the saying “Mama knows best” may not be so cliché in this case. Love can blind you enough to the point that you don’t recognize warning signs.

“If your friends tell you they don’t see you with him forever or that he’s not the one, listen. Your friends know you better than you know yourself sometimes.

You may have that one friend who doubts every relationship you get into, but if the overwhelming majority of your friends and family do not see things working out for the best, you should at least listen to them as to why. They have a more objective view of the relationship. Plus, if they know you well enough, they can tell when things just click and when they don’t.

5. You try to justify bad behavior

Your Lover is not immune from making mistakes. It’s completely understandable to forgive small mistakes, but your LOVER should not get a free pass on everything.

Something that should be immediately addressed is any form of abuse. “If he says rude things or degrades you, even if it’s out of character when angry, that’s a definite red flag.

A Student of Obafemi Awolowo University, advises women to trust their gut feeling when it comes to a bad feeling about a relationship.

“If you find yourself making excuses for your LOVER and letting big things slide, that’s a sign you should probably end things,” she says. “If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t.”

You can’t shake off your intuition telling you something is wrong forever. In many cases, our feelings of uneasiness are justified.

6. core values do not align

Opposites attract in many cases, but in some cases they cannot work long term. Having differences with others is what makes humans unique, but some differences may be too big to ignore.

A Student of University of Nigeria, could not look past a difference in religion between her and her LOVER.

“I am religious and my ex was not,” she says. “At first, I looked past this difference. But when he became comfortable enough, he would essentially make fun of me for believing in something. That’s where I had to evaluate if I could handle that intolerance for years to come.”

The important thing to remember is even though you and your LOVER have differences, there should be mutual respect for each other’s beliefs. You should never feel ashamed or scared to practice your beliefs because your LOVER believes the opposite.

Envision your future a few years down the road. If you cannot see your future with your LOVER and their current behavior, it is time to have a conversation with them. Whether or not you chose to end things or work on things is up to you, but know that you do not have to put up with behavior that doesn’t mesh with you.

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